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BigJay

BigJay

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Wagerallsports

Wagerallsports

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I will be honest, I am really struggling mentally being here. I hate being here, but as I mentioned before, my father is the only person in the world ( not my mother or siblings) I would ever come back and take care of. I will be back in Viet Nam for sure, my life is there, have an apartment there, that is my life, he is doing lots of tests and trying to get to the bottom of what is happening. We moved him into a top notch assisted living facility in Santa Barbara, there are some famous peoples family there, I am meeting everyone that is there and getting to know them. The staff told me that it is unreal that the amount of family that move their loved one in and then just take off and not be there, I am there and sleeping there etc , need to make sure everything is going smooth, need to get my fathers health "hopefully" ok where he can live out the rest of his life ( not sure yet ) then return to Vietnam and just make more trips out here , i have siblings so we will all take part and be around more for him, but I am the one here doing all the leg work etc, I have never in my life been under so much stress, I have never had to deal with someone ill before in my life, this is the first and the last because I would not do this for anyone but my dad.
Cheer up

You will be back home in Viet Nam eventually

Try to think of it as a kid waiting for Christmas

You are doing the right thing currently

Everything will come together in the end
 

flyingillini

flyingillini

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Is your dad able to take a 20 hour flight to Vietnam in first class? Let him enjoy the ladies....
I have offered to take him to Vietnam first class but he is not able to make the trip, it would be too much. I would love to do it for him though. I actually want to take him back with me and I will take care of him the rest of his life there, but not an option.
 

flyingillini

flyingillini

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Get ready BMR community, I’ll be heading back to where Christ once roamed. I’ll be in the motherland next month. Back in the grind and heading to SEZ’s. This thread will be back in action. Keep an eye out!
 

flyingillini

flyingillini

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I will get this thread started again as I will be back in the motherland next week. I will be headed here in two weeks. One of the great sites to see in VIỆT NAM, near the Chinese border in the North. Been there 3 times and each time it gets better.
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BMR Genie

BMR Genie

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